After leaving Navy careers behind—Maartje (18 years) and Clemens (22 years)—this couple packed their lives into 8 suitcases, sold or gave away nearly everything they owned, and moved with their two daughters to rural Spain to take on a crumbling stone ruin.

Over the next two years, they poured all their savings, stamina, and teamwork into turning it into a self-sufficient finca—while using the entire process to teach their kids what it means to work hard at something and experience the payoff.

The kids became little pros at the unexpected: digging, discovering, and unearthing old tiles, learning to see “rubble” as treasure and progress as something you build one small win at a time.

The renovation became a true family operation, all 3 generations. At first, Maartje’s mom cried when she heard they’d quit their jobs and let go of their belongings—but before long, she was right there in the build, grouting floors and sewing dozens of curtains and pillows.

Her dad brought his own craft to the project too, patiently sanding old wood and turning it into doors, plus pitching in with tiling and more sanding. With Grandma by their side, they also learned real hands-on skills—grouting floors, sewing, and tackling all kinds of jobs most adults would hesitate to try.

Now the finca is truly self-sufficient—because it has to be. The nearest power grid is 10 miles away, so the home runs on an off-grid electrical system. For water, they’ve built a layered approach that blends old and new: a rainwater capture system plus an ancient network of pipes and cisterns scattered across the property.

They also treat and reuse water on-site—cleaning greywater and blackwater so it can be used to irrigate the garden. And they’re growing more of their own food too, with a new orchard already taking root.